Last Friday, I led a workshop on behalf of Writing East Midlands, ‘Writing Romantic Fiction’. The course went well and I had a lovely group. At the end of the lunch break, some of us talked about literary heroes – that we’d hate to date (whatever the rest of the world might think!)
In honour of St Valentine’s Day, I’m posting some of the results here.
Beryl – and this may not be a popular point of view – would hate to date Mr Darcy from Pride and Prejudice: “Too good to be true; a cardboard cut-out of a man.”
Fiona would hate to date James Bond (a few aghast glances met this pronouncement). “He’s promiscuous. Even though his being tortured is responsible for his not finding it easy to get close to people, I wouldn’t want to date a man I’d need to repair.”
Claire’s choice met with nods of recognition. She’d hate to date Christian Grey of Fifty Shades of Grey fame, because “He doesn’t let Ana be herself.”
Cat, in similar vein, finds Edward from Twilight “Way too controlling.” As Christian Grey is said to be based on Edward, Claire and Cat obviously think the same way!
Stephanie’s ‘hate to date’ was Max de Winter from Rebecca. “A liar, domineering, and made no effort to help the narrator settle into her role as his wife.”
And me? I’d hate to date Heathcliff of Wuthering Heights. I think he’s a troll, meanminded and self-centred. His only redeeming feature is his love for Catherine Earnshaw – and that doesn’t go well! If I dated Heathcliff I can image glancing often at my watch and hoping the evening would soon be over. That’s if Cathy at the window hadn’t put me off by then.
Which literary hero would you hate to date? Does he appear above? If not, feel free to add him in the comments. π
Speaking from the other aside of the fence, so to speak, I’d date Elizabeth Bennet, but I know what you mean re Darcy – a bit of a tit!.
Anne Elliot, of course, because ALL the nice girls love a sailor.
Becky Sharpe. The list goes on and on π
John
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π So that’s why you were a sailor …
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I think I’d avoid Mr Rochester from Jane Eyre. Any man who locks his wife away, for whatever reason, has be somewhat dodgy!
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I think the same, Ann! A liar and a cheat. But I still like him more than Heathcliff …
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I’d hardly call Wuthering Heights a romance or Heathcliff a romantic hero in the first place – but that’s a whole other argument … However, you can cross Rochester, Maxim de Winter, Darcy and Rhett Butler off my list.
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Doesn’t sound as if any of are squabbling over them, does it? π
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No it doesn’t … Sensible Women of the World unite! π
(And I forgot the weird Laszlo Almasy from The English Patient. Add him to the list.)
Romantic heroes I would date: Mr Knightley and Edward Tilney … π
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Henry Tilney, yes – even though he’s a vicar.
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Even vicars date! π
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It sounds like a great course. I’ve been trying to find a vibrant writing group near where I live, but it is proving quite difficult
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The right group makes such a difference, Peter. Even if the group’s not exactly as you’d like it, if you find a couple of people within it who push you on, it’s great.
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Difficult question to answer. Will have to get back to you, a sad reflection on me, or them perhaps. Great idea for a blog though. Ah ah, just came to me. Sir Percy Blakeney aka the Scarlet Pimpernel was the first, and maybe the last romantic hero I fell in love with, when I was 12/13. Can’t think of any others. As for Jane Austen’s bunch, Mr Knightly’s the only one I’d give the time of day to.
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You’re discerning, Mags! π x
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Pip, in Great Expectations…such a ditherer. Not a single male of Austin’s. And just to jump media, no one from the Aadams Family or the Munsters.
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Not Herman Munster??? Wow. Astonished. π
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I’m with you on Heathcliff, Sue! I think he was a horrible, mean-spirited, manipulative b…….d! Cathy was welcome to him. But then I never liked Wuthering Heights either.
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No, it was a slog. I prefer contemporary fiction, anyway.
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Dexter – mind you, he does deep his dark side well hidden.
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Don’t we all? π
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I agree with all of the above, but I do love Dexter. Having said that, look what happened to Rita… so maybe not.
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Poor Rita! She might not have dated Dexter, had she known … π
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Been keeping up with comments. Would someone tell me who Dexter is, please. Feel absolute failure. So lukewarm about almost all, none are memorable enough to hate. Maybe Vronsky in Anna Karenina, but that was part of the whole point of the novel, Man of his times who was never going to behave any other way. Lesson to Anna and all women -warning cliche – “don’t hand to ’em on a plate”.
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Look here, Mags: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dexter_%28TV_series%29
I had to look him up. I don’t watch much TV unless it’s F1, Big Bang Theory or documentaries. π (I read a lot.)
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Thanks, Sue – I was never going to know this one. Love Big Bang Theory myself.
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